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		<title>Comment on To Be Happy At Work Ask For What You Need by asparker</title>
		<link>http://asparker.com/blog/2011/08/to-be-happy-at-work-ask-for-what-you-need/comment-page-1/#comment-23</link>
		<dc:creator>asparker</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Sep 2011 21:14:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for the comment, Larry!  You are right.  Asking for the &quot;sale&quot; is often hard for people.  Keeping in mind that everyone will benefit when you get what you need helps you to ask.  In both my examples the person asked for something that allowed her to give &quot;outstanding service&quot; as you say. The same would be true when a professional asks for the business and delivers good service.  Everyone is happy!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for the comment, Larry!  You are right.  Asking for the &#8220;sale&#8221; is often hard for people.  Keeping in mind that everyone will benefit when you get what you need helps you to ask.  In both my examples the person asked for something that allowed her to give &#8220;outstanding service&#8221; as you say. The same would be true when a professional asks for the business and delivers good service.  Everyone is happy!</p>
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		<title>Comment on To Be Happy At Work Ask For What You Need by lawyer larry</title>
		<link>http://asparker.com/blog/2011/08/to-be-happy-at-work-ask-for-what-you-need/comment-page-1/#comment-22</link>
		<dc:creator>lawyer larry</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Sep 2011 20:21:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Alvah,
Congratulations on your blog.  Happy at Work.  Your articles in recent months have had good ideas about this theme.  Asking for what you need as you point out is not always easy.  Even for lawyers who are assertive by nature.  Asking for yourself is a different tune, but one that you have one can sing if you have something  good to give in return  -- like outstanding service, you need not have qualms -- as in asking for business.  Larry</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Alvah,<br />
Congratulations on your blog.  Happy at Work.  Your articles in recent months have had good ideas about this theme.  Asking for what you need as you point out is not always easy.  Even for lawyers who are assertive by nature.  Asking for yourself is a different tune, but one that you have one can sing if you have something  good to give in return  &#8212; like outstanding service, you need not have qualms &#8212; as in asking for business.  Larry</p>
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		<title>Comment on How To Be Happy At Work &#8211; 10 tips by asparker</title>
		<link>http://asparker.com/blog/2011/06/how-to-be-happy-at-work-10-tips/comment-page-1/#comment-21</link>
		<dc:creator>asparker</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Jun 2011 15:45:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you Jenny.  I agree it is important to be happy all the time not just at work.  As a coach and practice advisor I hear more about problems at work than problems outside of work.  That is why I write specifically about being happy at work.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you Jenny.  I agree it is important to be happy all the time not just at work.  As a coach and practice advisor I hear more about problems at work than problems outside of work.  That is why I write specifically about being happy at work.</p>
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		<title>Comment on How To Be Happy At Work &#8211; 10 tips by jennysmith</title>
		<link>http://asparker.com/blog/2011/06/how-to-be-happy-at-work-10-tips/comment-page-1/#comment-20</link>
		<dc:creator>jennysmith</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Jun 2011 13:32:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Your blog is very helpful for people. I am very much impressed by your blog. 
I also think that we should be happy every time. because our happiness is also 
necessary for our health and for our proper successfully work  I have also read 
some tips about How to be happy in Health &amp; Happiness web magazine. In 
this magazine there are many tips about Happiness, Self-development, Health 
treatment, mental health &amp; about our life style.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Your blog is very helpful for people. I am very much impressed by your blog.<br />
I also think that we should be happy every time. because our happiness is also<br />
necessary for our health and for our proper successfully work  I have also read<br />
some tips about How to be happy in Health &amp; Happiness web magazine. In<br />
this magazine there are many tips about Happiness, Self-development, Health<br />
treatment, mental health &amp; about our life style.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Motivate Yourself To Do Continuous Business Development by asparker</title>
		<link>http://asparker.com/blog/2011/03/motivate-yourself-to-do-continuous-business-development/comment-page-1/#comment-18</link>
		<dc:creator>asparker</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Mar 2011 21:35:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Congratulations on receiving all the music resources.  What a great tribute to you!

Most law schools don&#039;t teach business development so not having a degree is not a handicap there.  People learn business development the way you did by doing it or by getting special training from others with experience in it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Congratulations on receiving all the music resources.  What a great tribute to you!</p>
<p>Most law schools don&#8217;t teach business development so not having a degree is not a handicap there.  People learn business development the way you did by doing it or by getting special training from others with experience in it.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Motivate Yourself To Do Continuous Business Development by jkersh</title>
		<link>http://asparker.com/blog/2011/03/motivate-yourself-to-do-continuous-business-development/comment-page-1/#comment-16</link>
		<dc:creator>jkersh</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Mar 2011 18:37:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I find a parallel with this lawyer&#039;s need to seize on opportunities  to develop his business. Since I never had the opportunity to pursue my career by completing a degree, my twelve years of practical experience has made up for the skills that I would have received with formal training as a music therapist.  Like your client,  I have remained motivated and eager to learn more in the art of helping others to benefit from reminiscence. Fortune has it that an associate who is a registered music therapist, now retiring,  has donated all her music resources to me. I am delighted and validated by her gesture and feeling energized. The information should be very beneficial for my e-newsletter and my engagements.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I find a parallel with this lawyer&#8217;s need to seize on opportunities  to develop his business. Since I never had the opportunity to pursue my career by completing a degree, my twelve years of practical experience has made up for the skills that I would have received with formal training as a music therapist.  Like your client,  I have remained motivated and eager to learn more in the art of helping others to benefit from reminiscence. Fortune has it that an associate who is a registered music therapist, now retiring,  has donated all her music resources to me. I am delighted and validated by her gesture and feeling energized. The information should be very beneficial for my e-newsletter and my engagements.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Refusing Applications from the Unemployed by asparker</title>
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		<dc:creator>asparker</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Mar 2011 21:37:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Someone commented on this before I had a chance to post it.  He put the comment under the article about Recruiters.  Please scroll down.  His comment is worth reading.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Someone commented on this before I had a chance to post it.  He put the comment under the article about Recruiters.  Please scroll down.  His comment is worth reading.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Using Recruiters in a Job Search by shurtleff</title>
		<link>http://asparker.com/blog/2011/02/using-recruiters-in-a-job-search/comment-page-1/#comment-14</link>
		<dc:creator>shurtleff</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Mar 2011 21:27:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>this in response to the job-posting notice:  &#039;unemployed need not apply.&#039;

i would worry about applying to a company that does not consider applications from those without jobs. the search should focus on what the company wants and needs, rather than arbitrary rejection for a nearly irrelevant factor.  [no jews, no blacks, no....] be direct in what you want rather than oblique in what you don&#039;t want.  after all, there are a million good reasons for not having a job. i know people who have been fired for honesty, who&#039;ve resigned because of frightening sexual harassment, or who&#039;ve had major philosophical differences when the character of a company changes.  the only possible justification for a refusal to consider the not-currently-employed policy lies in currency of skills or customer base.  and even then, workplace differences between a previous employer and the new one are usually far more important -- will the new-hire fit?  and if it were up to me, i&#039;d out that company as quickly as possible.  social networks can spread this information very quickly.

now you have to ask, why do companies do this?  this practice probably arose from noting that the ratio of applications to acceptances for the employed was probably better than those for the non-employed.  and so the employment consultants who look for correlations like this -- and get paid handsomely for these peripheral observations that can be easily measured -- claim victory and go home.  the practice becomes part of HR lore, and it&#039;s on to the next great data correlation.  and it&#039;s all so very very stupid.  exclude for good reasons, not weak statistical correlations that are poorly understood.

shurtleff</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>this in response to the job-posting notice:  &#8216;unemployed need not apply.&#8217;</p>
<p>i would worry about applying to a company that does not consider applications from those without jobs. the search should focus on what the company wants and needs, rather than arbitrary rejection for a nearly irrelevant factor.  [no jews, no blacks, no....] be direct in what you want rather than oblique in what you don&#8217;t want.  after all, there are a million good reasons for not having a job. i know people who have been fired for honesty, who&#8217;ve resigned because of frightening sexual harassment, or who&#8217;ve had major philosophical differences when the character of a company changes.  the only possible justification for a refusal to consider the not-currently-employed policy lies in currency of skills or customer base.  and even then, workplace differences between a previous employer and the new one are usually far more important &#8212; will the new-hire fit?  and if it were up to me, i&#8217;d out that company as quickly as possible.  social networks can spread this information very quickly.</p>
<p>now you have to ask, why do companies do this?  this practice probably arose from noting that the ratio of applications to acceptances for the employed was probably better than those for the non-employed.  and so the employment consultants who look for correlations like this &#8212; and get paid handsomely for these peripheral observations that can be easily measured &#8212; claim victory and go home.  the practice becomes part of HR lore, and it&#8217;s on to the next great data correlation.  and it&#8217;s all so very very stupid.  exclude for good reasons, not weak statistical correlations that are poorly understood.</p>
<p>shurtleff</p>
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		<title>Comment on Using Recruiters in a Job Search by shurtleff</title>
		<link>http://asparker.com/blog/2011/02/using-recruiters-in-a-job-search/comment-page-1/#comment-13</link>
		<dc:creator>shurtleff</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Feb 2011 19:07:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>in working with a recruiter who demands exclusivity among recruiters -- and they all will -- specify a time limit, e.g., 3 months, or whatever is appropriate in the current market.  otherwise, the recruiter has less incentive to try to find something for you quickly.  if he&#039;s got a job that&#039;s appropriate for two of his candidates [all other things being equal], one of whom may fly the coop soon, he&#039;s more likely to push the candidate that he would otherwise lose for the first interview.  you can also demand a minimum level of corporate interest, at least as defined by number of interviews for real jobs:  ie, if 6 weeks [or whatever is appropriate in the current job market] go by with no interviews, that should be grounds for ending exclusivity. 

ideally, you want somebody who has a specific set of clients with specific needs.  the job-seeker should also understand that some recruiters, the clint eastwood type, work by simply having a fistful of resumes, go from one company to another, and say to the internal HR recruiter, pick one.  they work by having that album of lots of people to fulfill any need.  the bigger the album, the more likely the recruiter is to have a warm body that will fulfill minimum job requirements.  this is usually not the best kind of headhunter for the jobseeker.  however, if a company is hiring a lot of people in a hurry, they may strike gold with this type of recruiter.  [otoh, the advent of monster.com and other specialized headhunting websites have tended to decimate the shotgun-resume recruiter because the hiring cost by internet is a tiny fraction of the recruiter&#039;s fee.].</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>in working with a recruiter who demands exclusivity among recruiters &#8212; and they all will &#8212; specify a time limit, e.g., 3 months, or whatever is appropriate in the current market.  otherwise, the recruiter has less incentive to try to find something for you quickly.  if he&#8217;s got a job that&#8217;s appropriate for two of his candidates [all other things being equal], one of whom may fly the coop soon, he&#8217;s more likely to push the candidate that he would otherwise lose for the first interview.  you can also demand a minimum level of corporate interest, at least as defined by number of interviews for real jobs:  ie, if 6 weeks [or whatever is appropriate in the current job market] go by with no interviews, that should be grounds for ending exclusivity. </p>
<p>ideally, you want somebody who has a specific set of clients with specific needs.  the job-seeker should also understand that some recruiters, the clint eastwood type, work by simply having a fistful of resumes, go from one company to another, and say to the internal HR recruiter, pick one.  they work by having that album of lots of people to fulfill any need.  the bigger the album, the more likely the recruiter is to have a warm body that will fulfill minimum job requirements.  this is usually not the best kind of headhunter for the jobseeker.  however, if a company is hiring a lot of people in a hurry, they may strike gold with this type of recruiter.  [otoh, the advent of monster.com and other specialized headhunting websites have tended to decimate the shotgun-resume recruiter because the hiring cost by internet is a tiny fraction of the recruiter's fee.].</p>
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		<title>Comment on What Do You Do During Tough Times? by asparker</title>
		<link>http://asparker.com/blog/2010/10/what-do-you-do-during-tough-times/comment-page-1/#comment-12</link>
		<dc:creator>asparker</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Nov 2010 19:48:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for this.  It is a great example of passion displayed during tough times.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for this.  It is a great example of passion displayed during tough times.</p>
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